, or friendship, is shared goodwill. Aristotle thought that anyone can bear goodwill to a different for one of 3 good reasons: that he's helpful; that he is pleasant; and higher than all, that he's great, that's, rational and virtuous. Lucretius perceives love as a disruptive and irrational drive, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7yoEpl90KUg&t=10s